Dad’s, do you ever wonder if you really play a significant role in your child’s life? I want to let you know that you do! A recent research study looked at 24 studies in the past 20 years to find out the benefits of the father playing an active role in their child’s life and they found many. You can hear about them on my past Saturday’s segment, “Raising Children Right”: Click here!
I know that its tough balancing a job and a family so trying to find time to spend with your child can be challenging. Be creative if your time is limited. Find ways where you can include your child and give them teachable moments. For example: You may need to go to Home Depot to pick up some items for a project at home. Take your child with you and get them involved in the task. This way you are engaging with them and teaching them things they didn’t know! They feel included and loved and this is the message we want to send to our child.
If you travel a lot, it can be very difficult finding time to spend with your child. Again, it’s being creative and finding ways to connect with them when you are away. A phone call, an email, a special card or note you give them before you leave are ways of sending the message, “Dad loves you and is here for you.”
The key is to start engaging and connecting with them early and be consistent throughout their childhood and teenage years. Remember, you do have an important role in promoting their social and emotional development!
Dr. Nina Rios-Doria, LPC
TXA 21 Expert – “Raising Your Children Right”
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