Encouraging Independence in your child

I hope everyone is enjoying this spring weather! This is the best time to get outdoors and enjoy the parks before it gets too hot!

I was reminded this morning when I opened my daughter's cupboard, the importance of encouraging independence. This can really help build their confidence and instill an "I can do it!" attitude. There are many things children can do at an early age if we give them an opportunity. This is key. Look for opportunities where your child can attempt to do something on their own, eventhough it would probably be easier for us to do it for them!

My child enrolled in Montessori before she was 2 years old. Montessori's philosophy focuses on encouraging a child's independence, giving them freedom within limits, and respecting a child's natural psychological development.

One of the things we did early on is create a cupboard just for her. She has her cups, plates, silverware, straws, etc. that she can get at any time. She loves this area and it gives her the freedom to choose also which cup, plate, bowl, etc. she wants to use.

Also, she has some bowls and plates that she and I may have painted at a pottery store. These are great keepsakes but also a reminder of the things she's done and can do too! :)

Here's a picture of what it looks like! She has picked many of the cups, plates and bowls out when we were shopping. It's not perfectly color coordinated but it's fun for her!

I encourage you to create one for your child or children if you haven't yet!

All the best to you and your family this spring!
Dr. Nina